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ABBA’s Benny Andersson Finally Confirms the Awful Truth: A Candid Reflection on Fame, Regret, and the Cost of Global Success
In a rare and emotionally charged interview, ABBA’s Benny Andersson has finally opened up about the darker side of the band’s monumental success — and the toll it took behind the scenes. Known for his musical brilliance and calm demeanor, Benny shocked fans by confirming long-standing rumors about the personal struggles that haunted the group during their rise to international stardom.
For decades, ABBA was seen as the perfect pop group — dazzling costumes, feel-good anthems, and seemingly effortless harmony. But as Benny reveals, the reality behind the glittering façade was far more complicated. “We were living in a bubble,” he admitted. “It was all moving so fast — the fame, the expectations, the pressure to keep delivering hits. And we never really had time to breathe or process it.”
One of the biggest revelations from the interview was Benny’s acknowledgment of how the relentless demands of their career affected their personal lives, particularly the two romantic relationships within the band. Benny’s marriage to Anni-Frid Lyngstad and Björn Ulvaeus’s marriage to Agnetha Fältskog both ended during ABBA’s heyday, and the emotional fallout was quietly woven into the group’s later songs, such as “The Winner Takes It All.”
“It was heartbreaking,” Benny confessed. “We were writing songs about pain and separation while we were living through it ourselves. There was a real sadness behind many of the songs that people dance to at weddings.”
He also confirmed the long-whispered truth that ABBA came close to breaking apart several times before their eventual hiatus in the early 1980s. Exhaustion, creative disagreements, and the weight of public expectations all contributed to a growing sense of disillusionment. “There were days we didn’t want to be in the same room. But we kept going. Maybe too long,” Benny said.
Beyond the group dynamics, Benny opened up about his personal regrets. Despite decades of critical acclaim and commercial success, he admits that the fame came at a cost. “I missed out on parts of my children’s lives. I lost myself in the music because that was the one place I could still feel in control.”
However, Benny also emphasized that the reunion for the Voyage project in recent years helped heal some of those old wounds. “It gave us closure,” he said. “We could come back together, not as the young superstars we once were, but as old friends who had been through something very rare — and survived it.”
While the “awful truth” Benny confirmed may be difficult for some fans to hear, it offers a deeper, more human understanding of what it means to live in the spotlight. ABBA’s music may have brought joy to millions, but for the members themselves, it was often a bittersweet symphony.