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ABBA’s Björn Ulvaeus, 79, Admits He Faced ‘Severe Problems’ With 28-Year Age Gap to His Wife — “I Just Gave Up”
ABBA’s Björn Ulvaeus, now 79, has shocked fans with a rare and brutally honest confession about his personal life. Known worldwide as one of the masterminds behind ABBA’s timeless hits, Björn has always appeared polished, composed, and untouchable in public. But in a recent interview, he admitted that the massive 28-year age difference with his former wife, music journalist Lena Källersjö, created “severe problems” that ultimately became impossible to ignore.
Björn and Lena married in 1981, not long after ABBA began to step back from the spotlight. Together they shared more than three decades of marriage and raised two daughters. For years, the couple was admired as a picture of stability, especially in contrast to the heartbreak and divorces that had rocked ABBA’s history. Yet behind closed doors, Björn revealed, things were far from perfect.
“At first, the age gap didn’t matter,” he admitted. “I was deeply in love, and I believed we could overcome anything. But as time passed, it became clear that we were living in different worlds. The gap grew larger with every year. Eventually, I just gave up trying to make it work.”
His words, delivered with disarming candor, stunned fans who had always seen him as a man who guarded his private life carefully. Björn explained that while he and Lena remained respectful and supportive of one another, the challenges of such a significant difference in age took a toll on their connection. “It wasn’t about lack of love,” he said. “It was about reality. Our interests, our outlooks, even our energy levels — they stopped aligning. And that’s a very difficult thing to admit to yourself, especially after so many years.”
The confession has sparked widespread conversation, not only among ABBA fans but also among those reflecting on relationships with large age gaps. Some have praised Björn’s honesty, calling it a rare glimpse of vulnerability from a man who has lived much of his life in the public eye. Others expressed sadness, noting that even one of the world’s greatest songwriters couldn’t write his way out of the challenges of love.
Björn, however, has chosen to approach the subject without bitterness. “I don’t regret our marriage,” he emphasized. “We had wonderful years together, and we raised two beautiful daughters. But I think it’s important for people to know that love, even with the best intentions, isn’t always enough to overcome every obstacle. Sometimes you have to face the truth and move forward.”
At 79, Björn Ulvaeus continues to reflect deeply on his personal journey, even as ABBA’s music enjoys a renaissance with new generations of fans. His willingness to open up about one of the most painful aspects of his life adds a human dimension to a man so often defined only by his genius and success.
The revelation may be difficult for fans to hear, but it underscores a powerful truth: even icons struggle with the same challenges as everyone else. Behind the fame and the music, Björn Ulvaeus is simply a man who loved, lost, and learned to accept the limitations of the human heart.